MLWGS students were surprised and saddened by the passing of Ms. Joyce Charity. Her solid character and gracious personality will be missed by everyone at MLWGS.
Ms. Charity died in her home on July 1, 2008 at the age of 56. She is survived by her husband James Charity Jr., their son James Charity III and their daughter Kristi Charity Harris.
Ms. Charity was born in Amelia County into a family of seven children. She graduated from Russell Grove High School in Amelia in 1969 and earned a Liberal Arts degree from the University of Richmond in 2000. Starting in 2001, she had worked at MLWGS for seven years.
Ms. Charity had the reputation of being very personable, and she had many friends among the staff at MLWGS. Among those was Ms. Karen Hoover, whom she had known for 36 years. The two have been friends since their late teenage years. Ms. Charity eventually became Ms. Hoover’s sister-in-law when she married James Charity Jr..
“She was a talker,” said Ms. Hoover. “She was a very witty person.”
“She is definitely going to be missed,” said Salifya Akers (‘09). “She was a friendly face when I went by the office.”
Many of the staff spoke of Ms. Charity’s dependability, attention to detail and her passion for the school and its students.
“She always used to encourage the students: ‘Go show ‘em how smart you are,’” said Ms. Barbara Marshall, who had her office adjacent to Ms. Charity’s desk.
“She was very hardworking; definitely a perfectionist. Just a good, decent person,” said Ms. Williams.
“She was always the first one here in the morning,” said Ms. Hoover. “She just wanted to be here.”
While Charity may have been her last name, it was also one of her many attributes. She was highly involved in many charitable organizations. She held offices in Young Women’s Christian League, University of Richmond Alumni Association, Presbyterian Women of the Presbytery of the James and the Black Caucus of the Presbytery of the James. She also volunteered at the Family Advocacy Clinic.
“It wasn’t just that she was a member; she was very involved,” said Ms. Hoover. “I don’t think that you can say enough about her.”
“She was always trying to do stuff to help somebody,” said Ms. Williams.
To honor Ms. Charity, members of the staff are thinking of ways to pay their respects to one of their own.
Picture of Joyce Hackney Charity. Courtesy of Hawkes Funeral Home.